Loss of a Loved One

When is it time to get help?

It’s normal to feel grief when you’ve experienced the loss of someone you love. The symptoms of grief are problematic if you’ve been experiencing them for a prolonged time or they are severe enough to affect your daily life – eating, sleeping, working, etc. for an extended time. It’s easy to slip from sadness over the loss into depression or anxiety, and can even be a trigger for substance problems. If the death was very sudden, violent, or disturbing, you may even develop symptoms of PTSD. Or if your relationship with your loved one was unhealthy or complicated, it would be beneficial to work through some of those issues that may compound or complicate the grief you’re experiencing. If the grief you are experience is affecting your life and ability to move forward, then it’s time to seek help.

Extreme grief treatment methods

There are several different treatment methods for dealing with grief from losing a loved one. Your therapist will discuss with you what may work best for you. Some common treatments include:

• Grief work therapy refers to the methods used in counselling that help people to grieve loss and understand their emotions associated with the loss in a healthy way with the ultimate goal of moving forward.
  Acceptance and commitment therapy encourages clients to accept the difficulties and misfortunes of life. Clients learn coping techniques to not dwell on negative emotions by staying in the present.
• Person Centered Therapy differs from more traditional therapeutic approaches in the belief that, while the therapist has expertise in many areas, the client is the expert on themselves and their lived experiences. People are essentially trustworthy and have a vast potential for understanding themselves while also being able to ultimately resolve their own problems when guided properly.
• Emotionally focused therapy is based on observations and experience. It looks at emotions and emotional intelligence, which helps support stronger and more secure relationships by helping better understand how our actions impact others, and how our emotions drive our interaction.
• Faith based therapy is using science-based therapeutic techniques that are administered by a therapist with similar spiritual beliefs or an understanding of those beliefs. This is not based on any one religion or spiritual belief.