
Fighting Fair
Posted on 04/10/2016 in Couples Counselling, Sexual Issues
TL;DR: This explains the “Four Horsemen” pattern of toxic conflict—criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling—and how it can harm relationships. To fight fairly, focus on expressing your feelings with “I” statements, seek to understand your partner before solving problems, and follow rules like no blaming, no name-calling, taking breaks when overwhelmed, and addressing one issue at a time. Practicing these habits gradually shifts conflicts from destructive to productive, building trust and intimacy. TL;DR: This explains the “Four Horsemen” pattern of toxic conflict—criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling—and how it can harm relationships. To fight fairly, focus on expressing your feelings with “I”… Read More Here!




