Parenting

Why Siblings Fight

Posted on 24/05/2011 in Children, Family Issues, Parenting

TL;DR: Sibling fights are common and can stem from jealousy, changing needs, perceived unequal treatment, individual temperaments, or exposure to role models. Parents should avoid stepping in unless there’s danger, coach children to use words instead of aggression, and guide them toward compromise. Over time, with patience and modeling healthy conflict resolution, sibling disputes often decrease in frequency and intensity. “Ahh, the sweet sound of siblings fighting” said no parent ever! Siblings who argue, tease each other mercilessly, even resort to fighting physically are a cause of major frustration for parents who are constantly acting as referee. Although jealousy is… Read More Here!

 

Positive Discipline with Children

Posted on 24/05/2011 in Children, Parenting

TL;DR: Positive discipline helps parents correct children’s behavior without harming their self-esteem by focusing on actions rather than the child. Reinforcing good behavior with praise or quality time is more effective than harsh punishment, while letting small issues go and redirecting energy supports natural curiosity and growth. Insight’s therapists can guide parents in using these strategies effectively. Most parents don’t enjoy disciplining their child – even though correcting bad behaviour is a necessary part of parenting. Positive discipline is a way of setting limits on children without damaging their self esteem. As a parent, it’s important to know how to… Read More Here!

 

Dealing with the Divorce or Separation of Your Parents

Posted on 24/05/2011 in Family Issues, Grief, Parenting

TL;DR: When parents separate or divorce, it’s normal for children to experience a mix of emotions such as anxiety, anger, guilt, or even relief. Children should understand that the divorce is due to parental issues, not their own actions, and routines like visiting each parent can help them adjust over time. Open communication and support are key to helping kids cope with the changes and emotions that come with family separation. If your parents are going through a separation or divorce, a lot of feelings may be going through you at this time and this is normal. Anxiety, fear, shock… Read More Here!