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Tayler asked 12 years ago

i am in love with my est male friend

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Insight Psychological Staff answered 12 years ago


It sounds like you are in a difficult situation. I can absolutely understand why you would want to work things out with your fiance. You obviously love him very much. Unfortunately there is only so much one person can do to make things work in a relationship. Not only do you have to be invested 100%, so does your fiance. I encourage you and your fiance to book an appointment with one of our therapists for couples therapy. Meeting with a therapist would definitely help shed some light on the issues that need to be addressed and what it will take to get where you want to be.


Ashley Tulloch

Insight Psychological Staff answered 12 years ago

Is this a good thing or a bad thing? Have you spoken to your friend about it? Sometimes friendships that grow into romance are wonderful relationships to have. If you are interested in discussing this further, please contact us to book an appointment.