I met this guy on a holiday I went with a friend 5 years ago. He started to pursue me and we started a fling for the time I was there. Three years after we see each other again and have sex. We see each other the next to years for a week and have sex. I fall in love with him, but he tells me he’s in love with my friend. Can I still be with him? I told him it was over, but I did not mean it. Anyway he can never be with my friend whom he says he loves.