My Fiance says we are not going to work out … But i really want it to work out because I love him with all my heart and soul…. we were fighing and i told him that i dont want to fight with him because right now he is away and we were fighting over the computer and the phone … I love him and he says he “loves” me too … I just really dont know what to do. Help me please. thanks.
It sounds like you are in a difficult situation. I can absolutely understand why you would want to work things out with your fiance. You obviously love him very much. Unfortunately there is only so much one person can do to make things work in a relationship. Not only do you have to be invested 100%, so does your fiance. I encourage you and your fiance to book an appointment with one of our therapists for couples therapy. Meeting with a therapist would definitely help shed some light on the issues that need to be addressed and what it will take to get where you want to be.