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R asked 12 years ago

We have been married 26+ years, in March I discovered my husbands affair (3m). OW knew he is married, intiated affair anyway. She has mental health issues(fact). OW would make my husband stand in bath every time after sex, washing him like a child. Is this abnormal/controlling/humilating behaviour?