Relationships & Intimacy While Trying to Conceive

How Safe is Sex During Pregnancy?

Most forms of sexual activity are safe during pregnancy. Comfort and safety are important, and certain activities might need adjustment. Deep penetration may become uncomfortable, and care is needed with positions as the pregnancy advances. Anal sex is okay if it’s comfortable, but cleanliness is crucial. Oral sex is also safe, but avoid blowing air into the vagina. Masturbation is safe unless advised otherwise due to specific health concerns.

How Relationships and Intimacy Can be Affected When Trying to Conceive

Trying to conceive can affect a relationship and intimacy in various ways. It can be a very exciting time, however, it can also be a time that can bring unexpected challenges. For instance, the pressure to conceive can lead to increased stress and tension, which could potentially result in decreased libido or difficulty in connecting intimately. Additionally, the process of tracking ovulation, scheduling sex, and undergoing fertility treatments can feel scheduled and may take away from the spontaneity and enjoyment of intimacy. 

Moreover, repeated disappointments or unsuccessful attempts to conceive can take an emotional toll on both partners, which can lead to feelings of inadequacy, frustration, or resentment, which are all feelings that can strain a relationship. 

During this process it is essential for couples to communicate openly, support each other, and seek professional help or counseling if needed to navigate challenges and maintain a strong connection during this journey.