Relationship communication

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Jane asked 12 years ago

Hello. I have been in a very nice relationship more than one year. I am a first girlfriend of this great guy who is over 30 and had been very shy with girls and focused mainly on his science. We started to go out because I asked him to but then he turned out to really like me so I think we are happy together. The thing I am worry about is that now again I feel like I allways have to call him so we would see each other. I feel like he got lazy again and has never been great with phone or email communication. But the problem is that I hate being in this position and the only one proactive. Please tell me what I should I do I dont how to tell him how I feel without sounding and feeling needy. Or should I end such relationship?