Deciding to participate in marriage counselling can be a difficult decision to make, especially when couples are wondering if it would actually help.
Generally, if a couple thinks they may need the intervention of a professional marriage counsellor, then something is happening within the dynamics of the marriage that is making each of them unhappy.
Problems that cause many couples to seek marriage counselling include:
- disagreements about raising children
- financial problems
- sexual issues.
Further, choosing to attend marriage counselling sessions instead of heading straight to divorce court means that spouses sincerely want to make a marriage work.
Will our problems just work themselves out?
The only way to know whether you genuinely need the services of a Calgary marriage counsellor is to simply make an appointment and attend an initial session.
Discussing specific problems with the counsellor and allowing him to witness first-hand the interaction process between you and your spouse is the best way to discover whether you can solve problems together or need the temporary assistance of a professional who understands the emotional and psychological complexities of marriage.
When wedded relationships need healing in order to start fresh, a Calgary marriage counsellor can provide guidance to begin and complete this special kind of healing process.